When West greats East, what do you expect Mister...?
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3058748/She-spoke-sex-like-housework-Confessions-men-paid-thousands-marry-mail-order-brides-lived-regret-it.html
What exactly these sad old men expect when they have to pay for bride...! sadly, this phenomenon would never end, more and more western men look out for eastern wife for number of reasons, for the sad old men like in this article, they not only looking for domestic slave but also for potential free carer to look after them when they frail, weak and can not help for themselves knowing the cost for nursing home is very expensive, perhaps even more expensive when they have to sale their house to cover the cost for care in nursing home, the eastern wife is a better alternative for them, and yet they still complaint the wife just looking for a better life....!, in what way exactly Mister..? low to the low,..... hellow...!
Sorry Mister...! you will find those Asian women who married to the west like you portrait in that article are actually came from the mind like yourself, a better life in your and her own term..!, you give her money and she look after you, symbiotic mutualistic or win-win solution, right..? no, not really Mister...! you think it's easy to live in your country...? she automatically become a subject to the endless stereotyping and prejudices in your own cycle, perhaps your sister, your brother, your parents, your friends or your own children if you already have children, and your society, or she perhaps become a target of racism, not to mention the unhealthy fatty foods, the appalling weather and the attitude of the locals towards these women, you really think a better life for them...?.
Myth that Asian women are submissive and obedient is still believed by the majority of the west, especially for those who had never lived in Asian countries, they view the future wife as a beautiful and submissive woman who will cook delicious dishes for him after work, clean, and take care of the household for free, fit into domestic goddess, well...., never underestimated the Asian women...!, you might get to the shock of your life that many wife of the Asian continent is not just as a cook, submissive and obedient, but they have the capability of intellectual and emotional maturity level exceeds the Mister, they can be pragmatic, have their own opinion and do not even hesitate to cast a critic, while the Mister wanted to be "the boss" who want to control and restrict the movement of his wife's life, sure it can created conflicts.
In reality, many Asian women who marry Mister West are even more structural, critical, and can decide what is best in life without depending on the Mister, especially when they are marriage with someone who wants to control and strict their movements, of course, can be emotionally exhausting, trying to make the Mister always feel happy not an easy thing while the wife also wants the same thing, it's called "equal opportunity", Mister....!.
